Why is everyone insisting on being passionate? Of all the career topics out there, the mandate for passion must surely win the prize for being one of the silliest and most tedious.
To me, if you're working at a job where your brain is reasonably engaged, that pays decently and induces nausea only 40% of the time, isn't that good enough?
Granted, my standards aren't high, but maybe that's because I'm over 25. Plus, I'm a believer in the unvarnished truth. Thankfully, though, I'm beginning to see some honest discourse around the topic of passion.
Recently, the Harvard Business Review published an article about how most of us are pretty clueless about the passion quest, despite its popularity. (The article's author, Jon Jachimowicz, a Harvard Business School assistant professor, notes that 90% of a recent class of Columbia Business School MBA students cited “pursuing their passion” as a top goal.)
Advocating a more realistic approach to finding passion at work, the article gives the following advice:
- Don't be rigid about idea of passion. "Focus on actively developing a passion instead. For example, you can craft your job to spend more time exploring the tasks you are more passionate about (or simply those that pique your curiosity)."
- Focus on what you care about, not what brings you joy: "The distinction is subtle but meaningful: focusing on what you love associates passion with what you enjoy and what makes you happy, whereas focusing on what you care about aligns passion with your values and the impact you want to have."
- Be sure your passion has wide appeal. "We find that expressing your passion may only help you if your audience already agrees with what you are presenting. If they are not already on board, your passion for the subject may not be effective in bringing them along."
All sensible advice, though it seems to entail making big compromises. I'd go as far as to say that what's described isn't really passion at all but a rationalization of the path taken or a very water downed version of the dream job. So why we keep up this passion charade? Why can't we just say grow up and smell the reality?
Duke Law School who studies lawyer happiness."Longitudinal studies of lawyers indicate higher levels of life satisfaction when one is pursuing a task that is aligned with one's strengths and interests. To me, that's a pretty good definition of passion and certainly a pathway to happiness."
“Finding one’s passion is a fool’s errand," sums up the male lawyer. "If you keep searching for your passion, you might find that it doesn’t exist, or you stink at it. And by then it’s too late to course correct. I’m sure millennials would disagree."
The other lawyer puts it more bluntly: "Passion at work is millennial bullshit."
Yes, let's blame the millennials!
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Go read some Brene Braun - sounds like shame is involved for feeling passion. Because that would make someone happy or possibly be fun - and therefore we couldn't possibly be working hard enough. Hmmm...no wonder we lack creativity.
Posted by: Mercedes K Meyer | November 27, 2019 at 07:58 AM